Friday, November 27, 2015

Poem on Feminsm

   I know it's been quite a while since I last posted but College and work have had me so busy! I decided to post this poem  because the other day I got in an argument with one of my family members on feminism and he wouldn't listen to what I had to say. In fact, all he kept repeating over and over again is that all feminists want to do is demean men. So here's a poem he probably will never read but regardless it's out there.




DEAR BROTHER


You say I am attacking all men
But in the same way that you loudly proclaim 
not all men
Whenever any injusitice committed against women
resurfaces
Not all men are being attacked
No, brother, I speak for our mother's smile
that get's sadder year after year
I speak for our sister
and the fact that at any moment, she could lose
the wonder in her eyes
I speak for my inability to walk home alone at night
because even though I know
I am more likely to victimized by someone I know 
I can't help being afraid of the strangers 
lurking behind the shadows
I speak for my friends
who don't get paid as much as their male counterparts
I speak for the women, and young girls
who have been ripped of their innocence
I speak for the girls, murdered ruthlessly 
simply becaue they said 
no
Or because they are blamed for the hurt 
someone else commited against their bodies, souls, and minds
I speak because as a woman, my worth is based on my sexuality
I speak because my worth is based on my ability to carry a child
I speak because my worth is based on my wifely abilities
I speak for the women who choose to never marry 
and are harshly judged for this
I speak for the stay-at home mothers,
belittled for their choice to stay at home
I speak for the batterd wife, girlfriend, partner
and yes, I speak for the battered men as well
I speak for the men who stand by our sides
I speak for the men bullied for embraicing their feminity 
I speak for the men suffering through depression, 
the ones who chose to seek help,
and the ones too ashamed to seek help
And brother, I speak for you, so that one day 
you may live in a world where you are allowed
to cry and nurture others
without being shamed for it

(poem via Power Poetry, by Jenny163)