Wednesday, April 8, 2015

Unrequited Love And All Of Its Beautiful Misery


    You know that wonderful moment when you instantly feel yourself getting a crush on someone? At that moment you feel happy and scared and sad and ecstatic. And when they talk to you or even so much as look at you it feels like you have butterflies in you stomach and you want to smile and let them know how you feel but at the same time you just want to disappear and make it stop. Well, unrequited love feels just like that except with all of those feelings being multiplied because even though you're hopelessly in love with that person, you know that they don't love you back. And perhaps they will never love you back. In fact, to them you are probably nothing more than a passing memory. Maybe they don't even know that you exist. Yet, despite how horribly painful unrequited love is, there is nothing quite like it. It is spectacularly painful and you would gladly continue to feel like that all of the time-especially if there is still hope that that person will someday love you back. I've included a couple of quotes that express all of those feelings that swell up inside of you when you are in love with someone who doesn't love you back so that you know that you aren't the only one who has ever felt this way. I probably should be telling you to move on with your life and to look for someone whom does love you back. And you should do that-because as amazing as it feels, you need to find true happiness. However, I know that getting over someone can be quite difficult, so take all of the time that you need. Allow yourself to feel all of those feelings, even the painful ones. But, don't dwell on it forever, eventually you have to let it go. Besides, everyone knows that once you love someone you never truly get over them so don't focus on getting over them. Instead focus on being happy and following all of your dreams-trust me, eventually, you will find someone whom loves you back. There is always someone out there who loves you.

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